How Social Media Expectations Are Destroying Teenage Friendships

The following is excerpted from an online article posted by StudyFinds.

Today’s teens face a challenge that their parents never did: the pressure to be constantly available to their friends online. New research from the University of Padua in Italy reveals how this digital pressure is creating stress that leads to real-world friendship conflicts for teenagers.

The study, published in Frontiers in Digital Health, tracked 1,185 teenagers over six months to understand how social media affects their friendships. What they found paints a concerning picture of modern teen relationships.

“We show that adolescents’ perceptions of social media norms and perceptions of unique features of social media contribute to digital stress, which in turn increases friendship conflicts,” says lead study author Federica Angelini from the University of Padua, in a statement.

The researchers identified two main types of digital stress that teens experience. The first, entrapment, refers to the pressure teens feel to always be available and responsive to their friends online. The second, disappointment, arises when friends don’t respond as quickly or as often as expected, leading to negative feelings. Both types of stress play significant roles in the challenges teens face in their digital friendships.

Surprisingly, it’s not the pressure to be available that causes most problems, it’s the disappointment when friends aren’t available to them.

“Disappointment from unmet expectations on social media—such as when friends do not respond or engage as expected—is a stronger predictor of friendship conflict than the pressure to be constantly available,” explains Angelini.

In other words, teens aren’t fighting because they feel burdened by needing to respond to every message, but because they feel upset when their friends don’t respond to them.

The good news is that parents and educators can help teens develop healthier social media habits. Teaching teens strategies to protect their mental health online is crucial as parents navigate the uncharted territory of raising a generation growing up with social media.

“One such habit for teenagers could be setting boundaries, for example scheduling ‘offline’ times or managing notifications. When done in discussion with friends this can also help reduce misunderstandings,” says Angelini.

Source: StudyFinds
https://studyfinds.org/teen-friendships-pressure-social-media-expectations/