Jesus Coaches Wanted

Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. –1 Corinthians 11:1

A year ago, my doctor didn’t tell me to begin mountain biking, but he did say, “You’ve better find some type of exercise program that you like or you’re going to die.” (Fields paraphrase.) I told my wife what my doctor said and she told me, “If you don’t find an exercise program you like, I may kill you before you have a chance to die.” So, with that external motivation, I borrowed a bike from a friend and got started.

After my first ride, I realized mountain biking is not like the type of bike riding I did when I was a kid. It’s not “jump on a bike and ride all day,” it’s much different! In addition to the extreme terrain, there are so many moving parts that add to the confusion: 3 front sprockets, 5 or 6 back sprockets, 2 brake levers, and 4 shifting systems.

A year later, I’m still mountain biking. I own a mountain bike, I have a helmet, shoes, clothes, gloves, and most of the gear that is “required” for this sport. Still, even on today’s ride, I think about how little I know about this sport/hobby. I have so many technical questions. Sometimes I feel like I don’t have the slightest idea what to do or when to do it. My list of “how to” questions could fill pages. Basically, I have everything I need except…I desperately need coaching to get answers to my questions.

As I was riding and thinking about my need for a coach/mentor, I began to think about newer Christians (younger either in age or maturity, or both). It occurred to me that much like I need a riding coach, they need a “Jesus coach.” As mountain biking is much more complex than “jump on a bike”…following Jesus is much more complex than “go to a church.”

Could it be that we have become comfortable in welcoming newer Christians, but we’re not so good at coaching them on how to walk with Jesus? Are we unintentionally sending them the message, “Figure it out on your own”?

What a huge impact we could have if we intentionally begin to see ourselves as mentors, as “Jesus coaches”! Just think of how we might expand the work God is doing in the world if we just help newer Christians learn how to follow Jesus!

You might be saying to yourself, Sounds good, Doug…except I don’t know how to be a “Jesus coach.” Trust me, I understand. But, let me reassure you. Being a “Jesus coach” is less about trying to work a discipleship program and more about intentionally building relationships with others for the purpose of role modeling: living out your faith in front of them and sharing your life with them. This is exactly what the Apostle Paul was doing when he said, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” Remember, to a newer Christian, you have more experience in faith than he/she has. To her or him, you are the expert!

Learning to walk with Jesus is an adventure… but it’s one that requires more help and coaching than we’re probably offering. So, become a “Jesus coach” to someone. Newer Christians need you- a coaching, listening, loving, and caring you.

1. Who has mentored you to become a more mature Christian? Send an email, text, or make a phone call to a mentor, just to say thank you.

2. In your life, who is a newer Christian that could benefit from your coaching right now?

Philippians 3:17; 1 Timothy 4:12; Acts 18:24-27

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Doug Fields

Doug Fields is the senior director of HomeWord. He speaks to thousands of leaders, teenagers and parents each year. He’s also the author/co-author of 50+ books including: Parenting in a Screen Saturated Culture; Intentional Parenting; 7 Ways to be Her Hero – the One Your Wife Has Been Waiting For; and To Have and To Hold. In addition to Doug’s speaking and writing, he is also the co-founder of and the youth pastor at Mariners Church. Doug has been married for more than 35 years to his wonderful wife Cathy, and they live near their 3 married children and 3 grandchildren in Southern California.

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